I just read that vox article. It is literally going through the reasons why that feminist author is transphobic and how she is using the language of cancel culture to deflect criticism.

We are not arguing gender is a feeling. We are arguing its socially constructed, which it is. You don't come out of the vagina with an urge to play football and wear suits.

But also this definition talk distracts from the real question, will you support Trans rights? Will you help get access to medical care and stop us from getting assaulted?